Just back from vacation. That wonderful feeling
of freedom and relaxation makes one more sexual, doesn’t it?
Flexible schedules, long and late breakfasts,
late nights, the sand, the sea and the sun. More importantly, increased alcohol
consumption. Loved one right beside you 24/7. What more can anyone want?
You know what I’m talking about. Everything
seems to be easier, better, more optimistic while away from home on vacation.
No anxiety, no daily schedule, no traffic, no errands to run.
Sex educator Logan Levkoff, the author of “How to Get Your Wife to Have Sex with You,” says, "More
than anything, vacations should be about reconnecting with your partner and
disconnecting from your daily life.”
I don’t know how vacation works for you. But I
feel that we are horribly fooled by and extensively and negatively impacted by
movies and television into an inflated illusion of “vacation and relationship.”
We add more meaning to what a vacation is or can ever be.
ROMANTIC AND SEXY: TV star Pınar
Altuğ kisses her young husband Yağmur Atacan during their Bodrum vacation.
I mean if you have problems in your
relationship, a vacation or a trip cannot help you very much. It can only give
you unrealistic perceptions. If your partner can’t get it up, he is unlikely to
be able to do so during your vacation. If you have a “cold” wife, then there is
little chance that she will turn into someone who wants to have sex with you
Romance by the poolside, long walks on the
beach, watching the sunset while drinking champagne, no kids, no money
problems, the feeling that your body is in perfect shape, the guy near you does
not look at any of the girls on the beach, your wife doesn’t have a tummy and
you have six packs, food is cheap and delicious with no foreseen digestion
problems, no mosquitoes, planes arrive on time, no luggage lost, wonderful
people around you, new and 100 percent reliable friends, all kinds of positive
feelings whirling around you… Who would not want to be involved in sexual
activity? Enjoy the best of one’s partner? Activate one’s own best performance?
Try new things? Overcome boundaries?
That happens only in films
and television serials. They happen in three minutes. They take up a maximum of
five minutes on the screen. Real vacations are longer.