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Women’s rights fade away

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The Hürriyet human rights train tour reveals continuing challenges facing women across Turkey. The more that women try to gain and exercise their rights, the more conflict emerges between husbands and wives, with women facing increasing societal pressure

With a mission to raise women and children’s awareness of their rights, the daily Hürriyet’s human rights train, which is still touring the Eastern part of Anatolia, has visited most of the Aegean region within the last two weeks. As part of its 51-day trans-Anatolian voyage, the train has visited İzmir, İzmir’s Selçuk district, Aydın, Denizli, Burdur, Isparta, Uşak, Manisa, Balıkesir and Bandırma in a bid to inform women of their rights.

The tour has revealed that no matter whether the train turns east or west, the situation for women’s human rights is not that promising. Due to Western Turkey's relative prosperity and high level of education, people are considered to be more economically and socially privileged and thus should be more conscious about their rights.

Traditional customs dominate women’s daily lives

However, discussions in the cities where Hürriyet train has stopped revealed that women living in western Turkey were not aware of their rights and that women's daily lives were being shaped by patriarchal customs and traditions. The train’s mission is already challenging in a country like Turkey, which was recently declared by the European Court of Human Rights, as one of three countries, along with Russia and Romania, where human-rights violations are a serious concern. Out of 97,300 total cases in the hands of the European court, more than 11 percent were from Turkey. 

The train tour implies that it remains a luxury to expect women to know about and realize their rights, given that traditional, patriarchal customs still dominate their daily lives across the country. It will also be a luxury to discuss women’s rights, as women can't prioritize their human-rights hopes given the country’s current social and economic circumstances.

Both women and children in western Turkey seem to make their voices heard in the household more boldly and seem to be better educated when compared to those who live in the East. Still, the traditionally patriarchal family structure and even external or societal pressures continue to influence women’s lives. Many women seem to reduce the meaning of human rights to the freedom of thought and expression in the family, thereby ignoring their economic and working rights, or their sexual and reproductive rights.

A 35-year-old woman in Uşak, who wears headscarf, said during a brief interview that it is her desire to reveal her hair, which is also supported by her husband. “But it is the pressure of the outside, our relatives in particular, that prevents me from doing so,” she said. She also complained about the gossip spread by her relatives and of the social pressure when she did so on special occasions. 

‘Husband has the final word’

Another meaningful and interesting story came from a local lady who wears a headscarf for political reasons in Isparta. She covered her head to suit her husband’s wishes once they were married. She also said that her husband drank almost every night and that she felt happy to prepare a decent rakı sofrası, a traditional meal of small mezes, for him every night. 

For Neşe Hacısalihoğlu, project coordinator of the End Domestic Violence campaign launched by daily Hürriyet, the picture in western Turkey was not so different from the country’s overall performance in terms of women’s rights.

“Women in western Turkey might be more educated and have greater knowledge about their rights, which makes them participate more fully in working life. But their participation in the workforce is likely to create conflict within the family and thus result in a drastic increase in the divorce rate,” said Hacısalihoğlu, a member of the train’s staff, who conducts seminars about domestic violence and women’s rights at each stop.

“The more that these women try to gain and exercise their rights, the more conflict emerges between husband and wife. When a woman seeks her rights, she is sometimes blamed, punished or faced with prejudice by her family. Men still have the final word in women’s rights. It is the husband, for instance, who influences their wives’ choice of occupation.”

‘Traditional values should be questioned’

She said women weren’t sufficiently aware of their rights and that domestic violence remains among the country’s major problems, even in western Turkey. “But these types of events usually remain hidden with the rhetoric that ‘whatever happens in family remains within family.’ The lack of social mechanisms to protect women after facing domestic violence – and the socio-economic system itself – prevent many women from exercising their individual rights and veil the incidents of violence,” she noted.

Hacısalihoğlu said that studies and efforts designed to raise awareness among women of their rights should be intensified. “I think it will be better to begin by questioning these traditional, deep-rooted, patriarchal social values,” she said. 


 

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Guest - nancie (2009-09-30 18:15:31) :

The number One paradox In the World Men hold down women for ego purposes to esure loyality from the women they have been brought up to hate and mistrust. It is all about those penises that are #1 and unique gift that they must protect along with their false egos.. Men demand they keep them down by barring them from education and jobs hence creating monetary dependance and no value hence creating resentment and demorilizing behavior. Men won't step up to the plate and treat their women well and won't step aside either to help their women and themselves so the sick disfunctional world keeps going on and on. Sad sad. The answer is ours in this country. Women are still demorilized but not as bad. They must work endlessly inside the home and out and take on most of the caretaking of the children. Still rather this than that. The more time goes on perhaps the better it will get for women ...I hope.


Guest - hugo (2009-09-27 17:10:24) :

the saddest thing is that it is usually women who reinforce the gender stereotypes- eg the mothers make their daughters do the cooking and cleaning while the son watches TV- and they are the ones who hold their daughters back


Guest - James (2009-09-27 14:14:55) :

I am an American man married to a Turkish wife. we wee living in America and then I decided that I wanted o try living in Turkey. She did not want to live in Turkey because of the way women were not treated as equal here in Turkey. I thought she was exaggerating. Sadly, I now see that she was right. It ir rooted in the religion and culture of the region. Only education can bring about change, and then only gradually, but who controls what is taught?


Guest - Viggo (2009-09-27 10:43:36) :

A really sad story. We keep reading about the attempt of the government to allow head scarves in universities, but apart from that, they seem to have forgotten our women and their rights.


Guest - Jenny Theirlynck (2009-09-26 21:55:03) :

I think its determined by culture and religion, but also by the nature of men who deep down still want to dominate finally. Also western men have often still problems with a totally equal relationship, but they are raised different and are restrained by another law, so it cancels each other.


Guest - maurizio (2009-09-26 09:42:47) :

No mention of religion? Surely this is the biggest cause of oppression against women.


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